Tuesday 22 November 2011

Aku Bukan Muslimah Yang Baik



بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

aku bukan muslimah yang baik

...ketika muslimah lain sibuk membaca dan mentabburi al-qur'an

aq sibuk mendengarkan lagu picisan yang tak membuat qu makin dekat dengan-Nya


aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain sibuk menambah hafalan ayat-ayat cinta Allah
aku malah asik mengahafal lagu-lagu yang melalaikan ku dari-Nya

aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain makin memanjangkan jilbabnya
aku malah merasa risih dengan jilbab yang terlalu panjang

aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain sibuk menuntut ilmu-Nya
aku malah sibuk dengan urusan dunia yang membuat jarak dengan-Nya

aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain malu untuk menampakkan wajah dan fotonya
aku malah sibuk meng-upload foto-foto agar bisa dilihat semua orang

aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain berusaha menundukkan pandangannya
aku sibuk memperhatikan ketampanan wajah yang bukan mahram ku

aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain menjaga hubungan dan jarak dengan lawan jenisnya
aku malah terbiasa duduk berdekatan dengan pria

aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain berkata dan berbincang tentang hal yang bermanfaat
aku senang membicarakan aib dan kejelekan orang lain

aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain menjaga kata-katanya dengan baik
aku terlalu sering menyakiti hati orang lain dengan lisan ku

aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain belajar untuk terus mempercantik hati dan akhlaknya
aku lebih asik memperhatikan fisik diri ku saja

aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain senang berpuasa sunnah
aku lebih memilih selalu mengenyangkan perut ku

aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain bangun di sepertiga malam untuk bermunajat pada-Nya
aku lebih memilih berselimut dan tidur sepuasnya

aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain sibuk untuk berdakwah di jalan-Nya
aku lebih memilih santai dan menonton tv di rumah

aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain sibuk ingin mendapat ridho dan cinta-Nya
aku malah sibuk ingin mendapat sanjungan dan cinta makhluk-Nya saja

aku bukan muslimah yang baik
ketika muslimah lain gelisah di saat imannya menurun
aku malah semakin lalai dengan dunia
aku memang bukan muslimah yang baik


Sajak ini daku petik dari Dr.Life untuk renungan diriku sendiri serta kawan-kawan sekalian

Learn to improve how you make presentation

Everyone has to present his/her assignments for certain time.Here, I make a research dan  try to get some criticisms about my presentations in class from my friends.

Comments:
1.Talk too fast
2. Do not pronoun correctly
3.Can't understand much about talk
3. Nervous

Learn from previous mistakes

Here, I found some video for future improvements.




Thursday 17 November 2011

Congrats to You!

Tahniah buat Kak Siti Husna dan Nasoha ..They are great leaders in Vsomebody Group

Tahniah buat Kak Farah Aida Anuar. Beliau menamatkan usia bujangnya pada umur 20 tahun..Kita bila yer pulak? hihi..Tak dok calon la..







Tahniah jugak buat Kak Aty dan Abg Azmi.
.Mujur la, hamba kebetulan cuti masa minggu itu..boleh tolong-tolong sikit..
Bergetar hati bila dengar takzirah dari tok kadi sebelum sesi ijab kabul..Besar tanggungjawan suami...

Hati Kak Aty berdebar-debar saat sesi ijab kabul


Sesi Ijab Kabul di Masjid Terapung

Sementara menunggu pengantin lelaki bersiap


Suami Kak Aty pakaikan gelang sempena perkahwinan

Indahnya sunnah Rasulullah s.a.w



Sunday 13 November 2011

Aku Sayang Kamu dengan Caraku Sendiri

Aku sayang kamu 
Dengan caraku sendiri
Jika mereka memilih untuk bertemu,
Aku memilih untuk tidak bertemu,
Jika mereka memilih untuk kerap bermesej,
Aku memilih untuk tidak bermesej,
Jika mereka memilih untuk saling mengingati,
Aku memilih untuk tidak mengingati kamu,
Jika mereka memilih untuk saling merindui,
Aku memilih untuk tidak merindui kamu,
Kerana apa pilihanku berbeza dengan mereka?
Kerana kamu belum tentu jadi milikku,
Aku lebih merindukan Pencipta ku,
Aku lebih suka bermesej dengan Kekasihku dengan hanya berdoa,
Aku lebih selesa mengingati Dia yang sering mengingatiku
Aku sayang kamu namun aku lebih sayang Dia 
Terima kasih kerana memahami caraku


See video here  Aku sayang kamu dengan caraku sendiri
........................




Hadirlah cinta...Cinta Pertama...Cinta Utama


Cinta Pertama: Cinta Allah
Cinta Kedua : Cinta Rasulullah s.a.w
Cinta Ketiga : Cinta Ibu bapa





Thursday 10 November 2011

Kenangan Jualan Gerai Semestar 1

Bergambar lepas puas menjual


Ahli-ahli kumpulan Little Rainbow Corporation

3 perkara utama dibawa semasa peperiksaan

Hari ini, saya ingin kongsikan pesanan guru fizik yang saya sayangi..Encik Shazmi Muhammad..
Kadang-kadang, bila dengar cikgu shazmi cakap, saya rasa tersentak dan sedar dari lena yang panjang.

3 perkara utama yang akan dibawa semasa peperiksaan ialah:

  1. Ilmu yang dipelajari
  2. Restu ibu bapa
  3. Berkat ilmu guru-guru


Yang lain ada lagi...
  • Kawan-kawan
  • Masyarakat sekitar


Teringat tak kadang-kadang kita rasa blank bila nak jawab exam? Ini mungkin ada masalah dengan 3 perkara utama di atas sama ada restu ibu bapa dan berkat ilmu guru-guru. Saya juga teringat pesanan Cikgu Azian pasal telefon ibu bapa sebelum exam dan setiap minggu. Cikgu Azian cakap kalau boleh, luahkan rasa rindu kat ibu bapa. Jangan tanya buat apa tapi luahkan perasaan " Mama, Ifah rindu mama...Ifah sayang mama". Macam tu la..I like Cikgu Azian masa sesi express your feeling...Teringat event PEERS CFS UIAM PJ awal tahun ini...Pasal acara Express Your Feeling...saya luahkan pasal pemilihan course kat kertas majung dan siap tinggalkan no hp lagi..hihi..kelakar pulak bila ada org contact pasal tu..

Cikgu Shazmi juga cakap pasal Habbu minal Allah, Habbu minal nas..Menjaga hubungan dengan Allah dan menjaga hubungan dengan manusia..
Di akhirat nanti, carry marking 50% dengan Allah, 50% dengan manusia..Justeru itu, pesan kepada diri sendiri dan kawan-kawan agar jaga kedua-dua hubungan baik sama ada dengan Allah dan dengan sesama manusia.

Penerangan lanjut boleh la, kawan-kawan boleh la mengajukan soalan kepada Cikgu Shazmi..

Sekian, wassalam..


Alhamdulillah, got 3.56.. It is a test from Allah

         Alhamdulillah, syukur sangat-sangat dapat 3.56 untuk Semester 1 PPKS UMK
Semestar 1 agak padat dengan 7 subjek yang kesemuanya masuk pointer..



Antara subjek yang dipelajari :
  • Physics 1
  • Chemistry 1
  • Biology 1
  • Mathematics 1
  • Pengurusan( subjek keusahawanan)
  • Bahasa Arab
  • English
Pada awalnya, ifah fikir agak sukar nak skor pointer 3.50 ke atas kerana kesemuanya masuk pointer..
Kalau kat  CFS UIA, Bahasa Arab dan English tidak masuk pointer dan syarat lulus sahaja...Masa kat UIA dulu, boleh la dapat 3.18 walaupun main-main belajar Asasi Kejuruteraan.Ini mungkin kerana subjek Bahasa Arab dan English tidak masuk pointer..Result Bahasa Arab masa UIA teruk sangat ..just setakat lulus sahaja.Maklumlah orang tidak pernah belajar bahasa Arab masa sekolah dulu..

Bila keadaan macam ini, ifah merasakan UMK bagi penekanan kepada kesemua subjek yang dipelajari. Ini kerana UMK ingin melahirkan pelajar yang mempunyai ciri-ciri keusahawanan yang mana perlu menguasai pelbagai bahasa termasuk bahasa asing bagi memudahkan urusan perniagaan.Ifah rasa lebih baik keadaan macam ini kerana sekurang-kurang saya bagi tumpuan sama rata kepada semua subjek...Adil kan? Nanti ada subjek yang merajuk pulak kan? hihi..

Buat masa ini,UMK hanya tawarkan subjek Bahasa Arab sebagai bahasa asing untuk Program Persediaan Keusahawanan Sains UMK first batch. Maklumlah kami juga boleh dikatakan jadi bahan experiment dalam proses menguji keberkesanan program PPKS UMK yang sulung ini.

Berbalik kepada pointer tadi,3.56 itu adalah satu ujian kepada diri saya sendiri kerna menguji saya sama ada saya masih mampu meneruskan prestasi sedemikian untuk Semester 2 dan  3.Ifah takut-takut kalau result Semester 2 di UIA PJ terjadi lagi di Semester 2 PPKS UMK.Mungkin waktu tu saya dah down dan hilang minat kat course Kejuruteraan dan mahu kembali kepada cita-cita asal..Ya Allah, berikan daku kekuatan untuk meneruskan perjuangan di sini dan peringatkan daku ketika daku leka. Permudahkan urusanku dan perbaiki diriku ini.  Moga-moga Semester yang akan datang , bisa dapat 4.00 pulak..Inshallah

Teringat pulak kat ayat Al-Quran yang berbunyi:

Sesungguhnya Allah tidak akan mengubah nasib sesuatu kaum sehingga mereka 
mengubah keadaan yang ada pada diri mereka sendiri
Surah Ar-Ra’d (ayat 11)

Sekian, wassalam.Jumpa lagi di lain ruangan.





Wednesday 2 November 2011

How to stay motivated


How To Stay Motivated

Stay Motivated!
It is hardly a secret that the key to successfully accomplishing one goal after another is staying motivated. There are, of course, tasks which you may not like at all, yet you find motivation to complete even them because you recognize how each particular task serves a greater goal.
How exactly do some of us manage to stay motivated most of the time? Here are just a few ideas you can try:
1) Find the Good Reasons
Anything you do, no matter how simple, has a number of good reasons behind it. Not all the tasks have the good reasons to do them seen at first sight, but if you take just a few moments to analyse them, you will easily spot something good. We also have many tasks which don’t need any reasoning at all – we’ve been doing them for so long that they feel natural.
But if you’re ever stuck with some task you hate and there seems to be no motivation to complete it whatsoever, here’s what you need to do: find your good reasons. They may not be obvious, but stay at it until you see some, as this will bring your motivation back and will help you finish the task.

Some ideas for what a good reason can be:
  • a material reward – quite often, you will get paid for doing something you normally don’t like doing at all
  • personal gain – you will learn something new or will perhaps improve yourself in a certain way
  • a feeling of accomplishment – at least you’ll be able to walk away feeling great about finding the motivation and courage to complete such a tedious task
  • a step closer to your bigger goal – even the biggest accomplishments in history have started small and relied on simple and far less pleasant tasks than you might be working on. Every task you complete brings you closer to the ultimate goal, and acknowledging this always feels good.
2) Make it fun
When it comes to motivation, attitude is everything. Different people may have completely opposite feelings towards the same task: some will hate it, others will love it. Why do you think this happens? It’s simple: some of us find ways to make any task interesting and fun to do!
Take sports for example. Visiting your local gym daily for a half-an-hour workout sounds rather boring to many of us. Yet many others love the idea! They like exercising not only because they recognize the good reasons behind it, but simply because it’s fun! At certain time of their daily schedule, they find going to gym to be the best thing to do, simply because nothing else will fit their time and lifestyle so perfectly.
Depending on how you look at it, you can have fun doing just about anything! Just look for ways of having fun, and you’ll find them!
A simple approach is to start working on any task from asking yourself a few questions:
  • How can I enjoy this task?
  • What can I do to make this task fun for myself and possibly for others?
  • How can I make this work the best part of my day?
The answers will pop up momentarily, as long as you learn to have the definite expectation of any task being potentially enjoyable.
Some of you will probably think of a thing or two which are valid exceptions from this statement, like something you always hate doing, no matter how hard you try making it fun. I don’t want to argue – you’re probably right, and that’s why I don’t claim everything to be fun. However, most tasks have a great potential of being enjoyable, and so looking for ways to have fun while working is definitely a good habit to acquire.
3) Take different approach
When something doesn’t feel right, it’s always a good time to take a moment and look at the whole task looking for a different approach.
You may be doing everything correctly and most efficiently, but such an approach isn’t necessarily the most motivating one. Quite often you can find a number of obvious tweaks to your current approach which will both change your experience and open up new possibilities.
That’s why saying “one way or another” is so common: if you really want to accomplish your goal, there is always a away. And most likely, there’s more than one way. If a certain approach doesn’t work for you, find another one, and keep trying until you find the one which will both keep you motivated and get you the desired results.
Some people think that trying a different approach means giving up. They take pride in being really stubborn and refusing to try any other options on their way towards the goal. My opinion on this is that the power of focus is great, but you should be focusing on your goal, and not limiting your options by focusing on just one way to accomplish it it.
4) Recognize your progress
Everything you may be working on can be easily split into smaller parts and stages. For most goals, it is quite natural to split the process of accomplishing them into smaller tasks and milestones. There are a few reasons behind doing this, and one of them is tracking your progress.
We track our progress automatically with most activities. But to stay motivated, you need to recognize your progress, not merely track it.
Here’s how tracking and recognizing your progress is different: tracking is merely taking a note of having reached a certain stage in your process. Recognizing is taking time to look at a bigger picture and realize where exactly you are, and how much more you have left to do.
For example, if you’re going to read a book, always start by going through the contents table. Getting familiar with chapter titles and memorizing their total number will make it easier for you to recognize your progress as you read. Confirming how many pages your book has before starting it is also a good idea.
You see, reading any book you will be automatically looking at page numbers and chapter titles, but without knowing the total number of pages this information will have little meaning.
Somehow, it is in a human nature to always want things to happen at once. Even though we split complex tasks into simpler actions, we don’t quite feel the satisfaction until all is done and the task is fully complete. For many scenarios though, the task is so vast that such an approach will drain all the motivation out of you long before you have a chance to reach your goal. That’s why it is important to always take small steps and recognize the positive different and progress made.

5) Reward Yourself
This is a trick everyone likes: rewarding yourself is always pleasant. I’m happy to confirm that this is also one of the easiest and at the same time most powerful ways to stay motivated!
Feeling down about doing something? Dread the idea of working on some task? Hate the whole idea of working? You’re not alone in that, I’m telling you!
Right from the beginning, agree on some deliverables which will justify yourself getting rewarded. As soon as you get one of the agreed results, take time to reward yourself in some way.
For some tasks, just taking a break and relaxing for a few minutes will do. For others, you may want to get a fresh cup of coffee and even treat yourself to a dessert. For even bigger and more demanding tasks, you may want to reward yourself by doing something even more enjoyable, like going to a cinema or taking a trip to some place nice, or even buying yourself something.
Your progress may not seem to others like anything worth celebrating – but take time and do it anyway! It is your task and your reward, so any ways to stay motivated are good. The more you reward yourself for the honestly made progress, the more motivated you will feel about reaching new milestones, thus finally accomplishing your goal.
Mix and match
Now that you have these five ways of staying motivated, it is a good moment to give you the key to them all: mix and match! Pick one of the advices and apply it to your situation. If it doesn’t work, or if you simply want to get even more motivation, try another advice right way. Mix different approaches and match them to your task for best results.
Just think about it: finding good reasons to work on your task is bound to help you feel a bit better. Identifying ways to make it fun will help you enjoy the task even more. Finally, if you then plan a few points for easier tracking of your progress and on top of that agree on rewarding yourself as you go – this will make you feel most motivated about anything you have to work through.
Gleb Reys is a creator and maintainer of the Personal Development portal, where he regularly writes about successfully setting and reaching your goals through becoming more organized, productive and motivated person. Subscribe to his Personal Development blog feed.

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